Our love....
is right....
Im around 22 yrs old and i have pretty relationship with a nice man ...
his love for me is .. .like dream ...
he is the best lover i ever know in my life... 
but i have a problem and its make me feel so sad and really worry ....
about losing this pretty love .
My bf and i have been going out for almost 2 happy months and everything has been going wonderful....
im so happy with him!
He`s like me in every way...
We share many funny jokes and videos to each other and its been so great...
We have such a great time together~ we don wan to leave each other ...
Im not worrying much coz he like the perfect bf...
he is looks after me~cares about me~supports me~loves me~buys me nice things~
he is never cheated on me~never hit me~always is there for me~
he is good looking~charming~sweet~funny...
he is tall~ very intelligent~
he is a winner for me......... basically 
we have been in a long-distance relationship...
I have dated other guys but they just do not compare and the same goes for him.....
We both have not met anyone we love as much as each other...
My frens r always on my case about how stupid the situation im in is....
I try to ignore but it does get to me 
and i know they are valid in their points of
and i know they are valid in their points ofhow a relationship juz isnt complete if u cant see ur lover more than 3 weeks out of every 6 months.
Well...he lives in london...
We Skype and video chat almost every day...
He planning came to see me n i have planning go to london too.
we`ve juz made plans that he will come to visit in april n we will go to Taiwan together....
I love him so much~~
im so comfortable with him and i feel so happy being by his side....
i have had this feeling of emptiness n failure and its becoming apparent.... ><"
i trust him and im confident~but i cant help feeling a little threatened by other girls over there...
im sorry to feel like tat...
sigh...i don know wat should/can i do even know he was sad... 
after all~ we are long-distance... 
I don wan to end it n then find out ill never love someone the same or regret it later on in life...
What should I do? 
He lives thousands of miles away from me~ which isnt bad at all....
We can see each other everyday on skype...
We never fought~we don like fights~
But like i said~ he been sooooooo great to me n i truly love him very much.... 
In fact... we know we all hard work for each other...
efforts to save money... in order to see each other...
Even doing 3 jobs... also think its worth...
Many ppl think im crazy~ work 16 hours a day~
but i think is ok wat~ i know what im doing right now...
many ppl asked me for Bau is it worth it??!
hmm... of coz YES!!~ tis is my answer....
coz i know bau do it too...
u are not us... u will not understand our feelings n thoughts...
Long distance relationship never work???
i don think so... everything is possible....
Juz watch how you look... rite?
for exp : MR.Obama Became President！ the first black to become president~
m i rite? xD
sorry~ President Mr.Obama... u as an example...
i know its a really hard relationship but we love each other too much...
If u love somebody u will do anything to stay with them n not give them up juz coz of distance or what other people say.....
In time... will find a way to be together....
n the years of dating online will have been worth every second....
I love u... baby ♥
Irvil ♥
14052011
awww..comeone....dont b paranoid..just love him...he must be feeling the same way so dont worry..:)
ReplyDeleteYea it's pain-ful I know how you feel...really I do because I've felt jealousy and heartbreak and my friend had an online boyfriend for 1 month and he dumped her, so I like had to help her get over him even though I wasn't over my own.
ReplyDeletePersonally most people will think that long distance relationships don't work but that depends on the couple. If they are both VERY commited to each other. I mean there are even wackier issues on relationships that have worked, like there could be a 16 year old going out with a 30 year old and then they get married a few years later. Non-sexual married couples still together at 80 years old.
He does sound really caring for you. I bet he's feeling same way. And I'm pretty sure he feels his heartbreaking if he thinks of you with another boy. Boys can feel like girls, be worried about their apperances, their fashion sense but not like 'ahh bad pedicure' sort of thing that would be weird lol.
I live in England and who cares if girls are jealous of you and him. It's your relationship. Tell him that you feel threatened and he can sort it out for you next time you visit him in England. Don't worry, tell him how your feeling, don't leave him in the dark. All boys like to see their girlfriends smile, they would cry if they don't open up to them about how they really feel. Tell him, 'I love you so so much but I just been feeling kind of miserable ever since I last saw you'. Ask for his honesty but not too much of it and in return you give him your honesty. Understand.
Trust me you'll feel so much better x
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Friend been in long distance relationship and been in relationship with someone who kept wanting me to tell him what I was feeling and thinking
If you both truly love each other you should take the plunge! Go for it girl!
ReplyDeletethank you guys and girls for supporting irvil and me =]
ReplyDeletebaby =] trust me i will never hurt you plus you know my friends ;) they will bully me if i treat u bad >< hehe love u too ♥
hehe and its ok if i feel sad because once i see you or hear your voice i will smile again and yesterday was proven right ^^ :P
don't comment bad things because you might as well just leave we don't want to hear your bad ideas thanks
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